What I look for in a guy

When it comes to the person I want to be with there are some qualities that i tend to look for. I wouldn’t quite say I have a list because it’s not like I catalog all them. I just look for certain things. But if I had to list them I suppose these would be it. Don’t get me wrong, they don’t need to have all of them. But most of them would help lol. But I digress. Here they are:

• He has to be educated. Intelligence is extremely sexy and out of all on the list, this one is a must.
• He has to be able to hold a full conversation with me. If we can’t talk, it just won’t work.
• Perhaps have a athletic build. I’m so not into the anorexic look and huge muscles are kind of a turn off.
• Beautiful smile and clean straight teeth… lol sorry bad teeth are my pet peeve.
• Be a family person. My family is my world and I want someone who loves theirs just as much.
• He must respect his parent, especially his mother. I will not be with someone who disrespects his mother.
• He has to have thick skin, I’m as sarcastic as they come so you can’t take a lot I say to seriously.
• He has to have an amazing sense of humor but knows when to be serious.
• He has to be able to handle me picking on him. I do it out of love and expect the same in return.
• I barely make a lot of sense to anyone lol, so he has to be able to understand me.
• I want him to be able to remember the little things like my favorite color, or  the exact time he asked me out. Idk the little things mean the most to me.
• I love a man who is thoughtful
• I love to shop and I’m really into clothes and shoes, I would like my boyfriend to be too.
• With that said, I like a man who cares about his appearance.
• I want someone I can tell all my secrets to and know they always be kept that way.
• I want someone I can play Xbox with even if I lose all the time.
• Someone i can watch corny ass movies with(even if we don’t watch the whole movie)
• Who knows what the hell I’m talking about when i quote random shit from movies, songs, or shows.
• Someone I can sit and watch a whole season of DBZ with and still not get bored
• I love when a guy surprises me with random stuff, like flowers or even a song on my page that reminds them of me. It shows they were thinking of me.
• When they can teach me something I didn’t already know.
• I need someone who will be patient with me
• My past won’t bother him
• I want someone I can just cuddle with without any expectation for something else.
• I’d prefer him to have almost my same taste in music. Music can tell you a lot about a person.
• He has to have an open mind
• I want someone I can be a total loser when no one else is around.
• I want someone I can have really corny pet names with
• He shouldn’t be ashamed to treat me in front of his friends the way he does when we are alone.
• I want someone that will go the extra mile for me, because i would for them.
• I need someone that can handle when I have a mood swing.
• He has to be ambitious. I like when someone knows what they want and goes for it head on.
• He cannot be a liar. I will never tolerate that shit.
• Faithful to the core.
• Always there whenever I need them
• Understanding
• Someone who can make me feel like it’s our first date all the time.
• Sarcasm is actually sexy to me
• He isn’t weirded out by the fact that YES I am a girl who watches porn! AND?
• Accepts the fact that my closest friends are guys, and just because they’re guys doesn’t mean I want to fuck them. That shit would be gross.
• Someone I can sit and watch basketball and football games with… Even baseball.
• Who wants to travel and do things, but is also content with just staying in and relaxing.
• calls me in the morning just so I’m the first voice he gets to hear and before he goes to bed so I’m the last. And texts and calls me in between
• Isn’t afraid to show me he can be vulnerable too. Cause lets face it, all men are soft. They just never show it.
• Trustworthy.
• Won’t get weirded out if I peed in front of him lol… what? it’s part of life!
• Someone i can brush my teeth with in the morning
• It’s so hot when a guy knows how to cook… ugh
• Someone I can have a full conversation with about nothing at all.
• He should be selfless and completely giving. And not in the sense that I want him to spoil me, but in the sense that he puts others before himself without second thought.
• Is NOT hood! sorry but that is a turn off for me. Big time
• He has to be a fantastic, makes me weak in the knees, got me thinking about it for hours after kisser.

Dang that’s a long list!  And there’s probably stuff I could add to it too which makes it worse lol. no wonder I'm single. lol But I guess those are some things I look for in someone. He’s out there somewhere. I have faith he is.